yep, running the r160 atm, daily her until can afford a r180 hub to hub swap, talked with a guy today who had pile of broken axles and says he's gone thru 4 diffs, they daily fine but if you want to drift on a 160 you cant just ruthlessly dump, you got to "thrash her gently" I understand that though, I know through watching good drivers and practicing that once you can start to feel your running gear your able to correctly manipulate how you put your power down, smalls things like double clutching, clutch/throttle application/control, inertia initiating etc etc all guided through your sense of the car, I know experienced drivers know what im talking about, just a matter of conscious practice, it's definitely a skill that is useful in all vehicles, So Im motivated to put effort into learning this and honing driving skills, I'll update my experience from this mindset when I have an r180 installed and so much conscious driving is not necessary.
Thanks for the help once again, all the usual faces particularly.