That torque issue is resolved if you get an ECU remap. The stock tune leaves a big hole in the torque down between 1000RPM and 3000RPM. I can pretty much drive around at 50km/h in 6th gear, up hild, down hills and so on.
I picked my combo by making a list of things I wanted on my car and then picking the car that met most of the requirements.
H6 -> Check ( I quite like the way the N/A motor delivers power and these were all a bit cheaper than a turbo at the time. Love the way it sounds)
Manual -> Check. (this was non negotiable in my case, I'm just not a fan of autos, personal preference)
NZ New -> Check. (Gets 8 Airbags instead of 2 which most JDM cars have except for very few where the original owner ordered the car with the safety pack, also means all things are in English and the Radio works really well without a band expander)
HID Lights -> No Check (Most JDM cars have them, not the NZ New 3.0R though)
Macintosh Audio -> Check (It just sounds better and I like good sound)
Since I have had my car tuned I have helped a few others with their tunes too, mostly with Auto H6 cars and they have all said that it has transformed the car, which includes how the auto shifts, so this actually makes the auto a bit of a better proposition that it would have been when I picked mine.
From the list you have above, I would choose the facelift nz new 2.5T manual.
Ticks lots of boxes and it's relatively cheap for what it is. Very very rare.